A lot of stepmoms try to fix the broken relationship between their partner and their ex. Most of the time this ends up blowing up in their face. There is a reason your partner and their ex split. The pain, anger, and resentment from the past is something that you cannot fix. Instead of trying to serve as a peaceful mediator, you can work to set up and maintain healthy boundaries. Remember you cannot fix what you didn’t break.
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